Here are some guidelines to help the Best Man to be. Please remember, these are just some
of the standard duties. You may be asked to help in other ways, you may be asked to simply
offer moral support...
Arrange for a Bachelor Party; whether it is a dinner, a weekend, or a wild night out,
you are responsible for arranging the plans as well as the guests. Please keep the
tastes and morals of others in mind. Have fun but don't do anything you'll be sorry
for later.
Help the groom with the formalwear arrangements. What size does everyone need, where
can you pick it all up, etc.
Assist with many of the details. Chances are, the Groom will be too nevous to remember
everything.
Keep the bride's ring until the ceremony.
Ensure the groom's timely arrival at the ceremony. Check with DJ for announcements.
Offer to arrange payment for the officiate.
Offer to arrange payment for the transportation company.
Offer the first toast to the couple. Make it flattering to the bride, romantic,
and witty! Your DJ can offer some suggestions.
Offer to help in any other way. Calm anyone who seems stressed.
Arrange the bride and groom's departure. Make sure it goes smoothly.
Offer to return the groom's formalwear if necessary.
Assist the DJ with dollar/wine dance if applicable.
Check with DJ for announcements.
Deliver a message to the brides parents from the newlyweds thanking them for the
fantastic celebration.